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It really grips my heart to read about this article in the papers today. Why are men so weak in the flesh ? How can they leave their wives and kids for good without a word, and go for other women ?

"fu xing di ren, wu ching wu yi". Most men are curious and were carried away by false love and happiness. What kind of security and love these men can get from these illicit union? These women bank on their youth and coarse beauty to grab these lecherous and irresponsible men.

Men by nature like to dominate on bed. How does these slightly old men feel and think when they got a 18 year old girl in bed? Sence of dominance and conquest at most. Wake up. Drink some milk outside is fine but please do not own a cow. It is very messy.

No where is better and warmer than your own home. These women will never be at their deathbed when the time has come. Why these men can't resist such temptation? It is the same act, same process and the same thing. Its a few minutes of pleasure that breaks a family and hurt the women you once loved and had stand by you all these while.

Be responsible and wise, if need be,rent one from Geylang. Touch and Go with no strings attached.

Before marriage, a man would think that there is only one special woman for him in the world.

After marriage, he will know that many also can do.

is it always the men at fault? think again. its so easy to point fingers at them and say "they are the ones who left, therefore they are wrong?"....

does it mean women dont contribute to the break up?

such thinking is so shallow....and then pretend to be so innocent up front..

These say it all.........

A man seeks for a girlfriend before marriage, but escapes from his wife after marriage.

Men like to have a romantic and wild lover, but prefer a more conservative wife.

When a man has a woman in his arms, he has another in his mind.

Marriage is like the tyres of a bicycle, they can never withstand too much pressure.

#5
If you are not happy with your marriage life anymore, be it the man or the woman's fault... be a man and face it !! If nothing can be salvaged.. seperate in good terms.

A coward will just pack up & go... living the wife and children clueless and helpless !!!

#7
You totally missed the plot! Thats why I said the thinking behind this is so shallow....

"Why these men can't resist such temptation?"

Check the soul.

The soul influences the mind.

The mind controls [directs] the body.

Please respect the Trinity of Spirit, Mind and Body.

An impure soul will have direct influence on the mind, which directs the body to act bringing RWYS effects on self and people around them. Pitiful.

What is an impure soul?

Can anyone scrub the soul to clean it?

What is an impure mind [brain]?

Can anyone scrub the soul to clean it?

What is an impure body?

Scrub it? Scrub the outer only as no one can scrub the inside or scrub the organs, isn't it?

Please keep the Trinity clean and pure? What is the solution? Discern it spiritually.

When I see some of the wives and children some families have, I wonder what the hell allowed the men to stay faithful for so long.

Men are by nature sedentary creatures who do not seek change when they're in their 30s. For them to seek a new life with a new mate, something must have made them do it.

It is one thing to cheat by visiting prostitutes and having a mistress. It is quite another for the man to make the second wife the first wife.

Is the man wrong? Yes. Is there anything the wife could have done to prevent this from happening? Also yes. If the man was planning to cheat from the first day, then there's nothing they can do. However, men at that age (30-50) are risk averse and not prone to life shattering decisions easily.